The House Carpenter

“Sailing ships” drawn with colored pencils by Sanford Ross Bender as inspired by 17th Century Dutch sea battle master painters.
“The House Carpenter (Niles No.55)” traditional ballad with music composed and performed with vocals, guitar, and concertina by Sanford Ross Bender on September 11, 2027.

“Well met, well met, well met, my own true love!

Well met, my love” cried he.

“I’ve just come back from the salt, salt sea,

And all for the love of thee.”

“I could have married with a great lady,

For her heart was set on me,

But I forgave her golden crowns,

And all for the love of thee.”

“If you could marry with a king’s daughter,

I’m sure you are to blame,

For I am married with a house carpenter,

Sweet Willy is his name.”

Forsake, forsake, forsake your carpenter,

And come go ‘long with me,

And I will take you where the grass grows green,

Hard by the sweet lily.”

“If I forsake my fine house carpenter

And go to sea with thee,

Oh how, oh how will you keep me then

From shame and slavery?”

“I have six ships a-sail upon the sea,

“I have six ships more on the land,

And all those bright jolly sailor-men

Will be at your command.”

She picked up her own, her sweet baby,

And she gave him kisses three,

Said, “Stay at home with your daddy, my love,

And give him company.”

She dressed herself in silk and satin red,

She dressed in green and gold,

And she walked through her rooms once more,

The last she would e’re behold.

She had not sailed the sea more than two weeks,

And I’m sure it was not three,

When she sat down and she did weep,

And mourn most bitterly.

“Alas, alas, my love, why do you weep?

Or is it for gold and store?

Or is it for your house carpenter

That you will never see no more?”

“I do not weep for silver or for gold,

Nor do I weep for store,

But I do weep for my darling sweet babe,

The one I ne’er shall see no more.”

They had not been to sea but three short weeks,

And I’m sure it was not four,

When they did spring a longwise seam,

And sank to rise no more.

“What banks, what banks of land is that, my love?”

What banks so dark and so low?”

“It is the land of hell you see,

Where you and I shall go.”

“What banks, what banks of land is that, my love?”

What banks as white as snow?”

“It is the land of the Heavenly God

Where your sweet baby will go.”

Visiting wind

“Windblown” painted with acrylics by Sanford Ross Bender.
“Visiting wind” composed and performed with guitar and slide guitar by Sanford Ross Bender on July 14, 2026.

Slow walk home

“Bay wetlands” photographed at Island Beach State Park by Sandy Ross Bender on May 12, 2026.
“Slow walk home” composed and performed with guitar and mandolin by Sandy Ross Bender on May 11, 2026.

Going to sea

“Sailing ship” photographed by Sanford Ross Bender near Gloucester, Massachusetts on August 22, 2024 .
“Going to sea” composed and performed with two guitars by Sanford Ross Bender on March 10, 2026.

William and Polly*

Sweet William went to Polly,

To give her to understand,

That he had to go and leave her,

To go to a foreign land.

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O stay at home, Sweet William,

O stay at home, said she,

O stay at home, Sweet William,

And do not go to sea.

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My king doth give command, my love,

And I am bound to go;

And if it were to save my life,

I dare not answer No.

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My yellow hair I wll cut off,

Men’s clothing I’ll put on;

Like a true and faithful servant,

It’s you I’ll wait upon.

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The men do lie a-bleeding there,

The bullets swiftly fly,

And the silver trumpets a-sounding,

To drown the dismal cry.

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O tell me not of danger,

For God will be my guide;

And I value not no danger,

When William’s by my side.

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O Polly, dearest Polly,

These words have gained my heart,

And we will have a wedding,

Before we ever part.

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This couple they got married,

And William’s gone to sea,

And Polly she’s a waiting,

All in their own country.

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*“William and Polly” text from book titled “80 Appalachian Folk Songs” collected by Cecil Sharp & Maud Karpeles, 1968. Chord progression transposed and loosely based on guitar accompaniment notation.

Prairie Story

“Bison in Iowa” photographed by Sanford Ross Bender in Madrid, Iowa on January 25, 2020.
Prairie Story” composed and performed with guitar and concertina by Sanford Ross Bender on January 31, 2026.

Twisted path ridge

“Twisted path ridge” photographed by Sanford Ross Bender in Tyler State Park, Neshaminy Creek Watershed, Bucks County, Pennsylvania on October 29, 2025.
“Twisted path ridge” composed and performed with guitar, banjo, mandolin, and concertina by Sanford Ross Bender on October 29-30, 2025.

The thank you tree

“Dawn redwood tree” photographed by Sanford Ross Bender inThailand in 2016.

“The thank you tree” composed and performed with guitar and tree creaking by Sanford Ross Bender on August 8, 2025.

Gone with the frost

Listen to the fox’s bark,

Moonlight glowing through the dark,

Evil things will soon be lost,

Melting away like silver frost.

SRB

“Gone with the frost” composed and performed with guitar and violins by Sanford Ross Bender on December 14, 2024.

Ballad of the barking dog

“Crimson ” painted with watercolors by Sanford Ross Bender
“Ballad of the barking dog” composed, performed and recorded with guitar and banjo by Sanford Ross Bender on July 4, 2023

Once I had a sweetheart (roughly interpreted)

Once I had a sweetheart (roughly interpreted) on guitar by Sanford Ross Bender on November 1, 2022

This traditional song of which I only play guitar was most memorably played and sung by Bert Jansch on his record album entitled “Rosemary Lane”. Bert Jansch (since gone from this world) was probably more influencial than many other musicians on my psyche (human mind, soul, and spirit). My improvised version is imperfect and perhaps flawed in its brevity, but nevertheless is expressive of the vulnerability that is revealed in matters of the heart. S.R.B.

“Poinsetta, Holly and Pine” drawn and painted with ink and watercolor by Sandy Ross Bender