The Soldier and the Lady

“The Soldier and the Lady” arranged and sung by Sandy Ross Bender with guitar and concertina on May 25, 2023 and based on “The Soldier and his Lady” (Niles No. 65 B) from “The Ballad Book” compiled by John Jacob Niles in 1960.

A soldier come from Georgia way,

Of ridin’ he was weary.

He tingled on the side-door ring

To hearken up his lady.

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She’s took him by the bridle line,

She’s led him to the stable.

“Here’s oats, here’s corn, here’s hay for your horse,

Let him eat what he is able.”

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She’s took him by the lily-white hand,

She’s led him to the table.

“Here’s cakes and wine for you, my dear,

Come eat what you are able.”

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She’s went to smooth his downy bed,

And she smoothed it like a lady,

And off she took her red, red dress,

Said, “Dearie, are you ready?”

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Off come his bugle soldier’s coat,

Off come his boots of leather,

And quickly into bed he jumped,

And there they lay together.

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He held her high, he held her low,

For hours one, two. and three,

When the bugle blew, she did fear so much

Did sound forth cruelly.

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“When shall we meet and marry, dear,

If you cannot tarry?”

“When cockle-shells turn silver bells,

‘Tis then that we shall marry.”

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“The Sweep of the Bow’ drawn with pen and ink by Sandy Ross Bender

Once I had a sweetheart (roughly interpreted)

Once I had a sweetheart (roughly interpreted) on guitar by Sanford Ross Bender on November 1, 2022

This traditional song of which I only play guitar was most memorably played and sung by Bert Jansch on his record album entitled “Rosemary Lane”. Bert Jansch (since gone from this world) was probably more influencial than many other musicians on my psyche (human mind, soul, and spirit). My improvised version is imperfect and perhaps flawed in its brevity, but nevertheless is expressive of the vulnerability that is revealed in matters of the heart. S.R.B.

“Poinsetta, Holly and Pine” drawn and painted with ink and watercolor by Sandy Ross Bender

The Sand Dollar

“The Sand Dollar” collected and photographed by Sanford Bender on June 15, 2021.
“The Sand Dollar”, a poem written on July 10, 2010, with music sung and accompanied with acoustic guitar by Sanford Bender on June 25, 2015

The Sand Dollar

Walking around the curve of beach

The light house still far to the west

Out over seemingly endless dunes

An infinite distance reminding me

Of the poet who observed that

Beyond mountains

Were more mountains,

Soon after my companion turned back

I accepted the futility of continuing

But in my turning around

Circumventing the ocean’s horizon

Looked down upon a treasure trove of shells

Glittering beneath my feet,

There in the curls of seaweed

I found a sand dollar

Smooth and round

Ten pine like needles radiating

The image of the moon

Which would soon appear

Over the darkening sea